Author's note: Trevor talks about her own blended families' past and present
Introduction: who needs this book?
A spectrum of opportunities and challenges
The practical meaning of attachment styles
Understanding parenting and step-parenting styles
Key challenges to the blending process
Step-parenting issues with pre-teens
Sidebar: an essay about a half sister being a whole sister
Step-parenting issues with teens' risk and reward
The five things you must have to succeed
Trust and trustworthiness
Vulnerability and emotional strength
Stories and practical insights
Challenges, options, and solutions
Advice from the front line : blending dos and don't.
