What causes relationship sabotage?
Insecurity : "Will you love me forever?"
Needing to control : "I run the show"
Fear of intimacy : "I need you, but not that close"
Needing to win : "I dare you to challenge me"
Pessimism : "If you don't expect anything, you won't be disappointed"
Needing to be center stage : "Pay attention to me"
Addictions : "I've got to have that"
Martyrdom : "Maybe it'll be my turn someday"
Defensiveness : "It's not my fault!"
Trust breakers : "I never really agreed to that"
Revisiting the seven steps to recovery
Troubleshooting : questions and answers.
